Let´s talk about evolution and adaptation, this perspective gives us more facts than myths in terms of women/men differences.
Some myths… women are less intelligent than men, less strong, more emotional, don´t know how to drive, talk a lot…men are not sensitive, not tender, are rude, are not emotional, talk little, or none, to mention some.
Some facts…. socially we are raised differently, generally, boys dress in blue, play balls, runs, do sports, play fighting games, play cars, like don´t cry…. girls, dress pink, play with dolls, how to be a mother, cooks, color books, love make up, and cry. Both type of child games, are preparation for future adult lives, and it takes place at home where parents treat children generally speaking, depending on the sex they are born with.
Talking about biological evolution, we have a lot of scientific evidence showing that the early development of the human embryo is essentially female, with sexual differences appearing only at the later stages of the growing baby. Testosterone, with some genes, play a key role in creating the “male” development, in the body and in the brain… so males are essentially modified females.
We can observe our bodies, we have almost the same, with different functions, as we both have breasts, but women, ones, have a functional goal, to breast feed. Men are prepared for strength , velocity, and different attributions for conquering and hunting. So far we know the adult male brain is 10% larger than the female one, and females tend to have more regions on processing and integrating information… and remembering it. Men have the highest results on math… but also the worst; women stay more in the middle. All investigation agree that intelligence is the same in both genders!
Sexually we see differences too, to mention one, men are more sexually driven than women even in the brain activity this difference is marked. Men think on sex more frequently than women, looks out more for casual sex, in gay men the sexual activity is more frequent than between lesbians as well. 75% of men say they masturbate, compared with 40% of women (data from usa). Women relate sex desire with emotional links. The wine, candles, sweet talk, and promises, engage a women to arouse. But one singular aspect is the same: the desire for children. it is genetically determined to preserve our specie.
So women look for a partner with some different motivations than men… women want a strong, capable man who can “hunt” to bring enough food to the family, the one that can protect the babies. One that make sure the offspring will be healthy, strong and intelligent, preferring the alpha or leader of the group.
At the end nature give us plenty of qualities to either men or women, probably the main idea is ….. team work! no need to find out who is better, right?
After this reading ask yourselves, what do you look for in a partner? How do women approach sex? Do women manipulate with sex to have a boyfriend? What do I do to get a partner? How do I choose a man?
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